There is a dependency factor, a deviant need to sacrifice and an element of self-abnegation running through all theistic religions. Because God cannot be observed but nevertheless is conceived as always present, ageless and powerful, he becomes a static object of hope or fear. It is therefore reasoned that God may be influenced by worship, prayer or service to assist in matters normally beyond the control of human endeavour. The monotheistic religious person will build up sacred rituals identical in purpose and parallel in practice to those of the polytheistic savage.
The death of Jesus does not relieve the Christians of the need to surrender part of themselves, so that they may maintain the continued sense of closeness and favour of their God. Subtle elements of subjugation, self denying humility and mild masochism become evident. Christians kneel to pray, bow their heads and give of their time and substance. Some churches require their followers to withhold association with non-believers including members of their own families. Some demand a set percentage of their earnings to be given to the church. All true believers become subservient to their faith and accept its authority in the false hope of a blissful life in an after world.
The position of dependency on a God or church strongly resembles a pre-adolescent experience, seeking comfort from a mother church and the approval of a father God. If by chance an answer to a prayer occurs, it will be considered proof of the reality of God and his caring for human welfare. If the request is not forthcoming, the failure is excused and accepted because God knows best. The 'Yes' and the 'No' mean the same thing, therefore it is meaningless as the Christian takes what he/she wants from it. This is no proof at all. The expectation of a religious person is similar to a shaman who seeks to manipulate the unseen forces by ritualised magic. It strongly suggests a childhood mentality; a dependency on someone else to provide or approve. Surely mature people do not need this kind of nurturing. It is time we broke away from mythological gods of our ancient past and stand tall on our own feet, being independent and strong.